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treefingers
04-23-2007, 11:21 PM
hey guys,

kind of a social crisis im having and i was hoping some of you could help me out..

i got this friend known him for a few years and slowly im becoming more and more upset at the stuff he says hes always puts a negative spin on everything and talks bad about ppl (like surly,and im not being mean but he has a way of seeing things in the most possible negative way) but if someone talks bad about ppl to you its likely they talk bad about you to other ppl so anyways all this is starting to bother me i dont like ppl like that and heres where your advice comes in what would be the "friend" thing to do....confront him about it and ask why hes mean to everyone or just ignore him and not be his friend anymore?

id like to confront him but its not my business how someone acts or thinks but i dont like when they subject me to the negativety they carry around what would you do?

Surly
04-23-2007, 11:39 PM
just stop being his friend. if you started questioning why i was mean to people i'd probably just yell at you, and i know for damn sure i wouldn't change the way i acted. so you either have to live with it, or just never talk to him again.

treefingers
04-23-2007, 11:51 PM
hey surly

thanks for the advice. do you think that would make me a bad person for not like looking out for my friend? hes just gonna think im an ass for not talking to him anymore and then im just another person on his list of reasons why to be negative

Surly
04-23-2007, 11:57 PM
who gives a shit? that's the problem with being a nice person, you get put in little moral conundrums like this all the time. if you stop talking to him, that's definitely not very nice. He's going to wonder why you quit talking to him. However, if you tell him it's because he's a dick he'll just get mad at you and tell you to piss off. So remember this mantra, "Fuck it!"

Who cares? Do whatever the hell you want. If you want my advice, yes. Yes, it makes you a bad person to just not talk to your friend anymore. If it were me, I'd tell him to quit being an obnoxious little shit around me. That'd definitely be meaner, but I'd still be a good person!

treefingers
04-24-2007, 12:03 AM
thanks i think the thread is complete and im gonna bring it up but in a nice yet serious way if hes mean to me ill know hes not a good friend:thumb:

thats the coolest smily ever i can combo thumbs up now

Rkeh
04-24-2007, 01:26 AM
In the next episode of ask Dr. Surly, Max confronts his transvestite ways and looks for support as he musters up the courage to tell his parents. But the question is, will they accept him as he is or throw him out on the streets to be the shemale he has become?

Harlequin
04-24-2007, 02:03 AM
In the next episode of ask Dr. Surly, Max confronts his transvestite ways and looks for support as he musters up the courage to tell his parents. But the question is, will they accept him as he is or throw him out on the streets to be the shemale he has become?


Tell me when the Episode comes on where Dr Surly has to fight in a Ring Fight to the Death with three "Little People" and a poisonous Snake. I always try to torrent that show but no one ever has legit copies, I always end up with Jerry Springer instead :/

stalwart
04-24-2007, 02:47 AM
hey guys,

kind of a social crisis im having and i was hoping some of you could help me out..

i got this friend known him for a few years and slowly im becoming more and more upset at the stuff he says hes always puts a negative spin on everything and talks bad about ppl (like surly,and im not being mean but he has a way of seeing things in the most possible negative way) but if someone talks bad about ppl to you its likely they talk bad about you to other ppl so anyways all this is starting to bother me i dont like ppl like that and heres where your advice comes in what would be the "friend" thing to do....confront him about it and ask why hes mean to everyone or just ignore him and not be his friend anymore?

id like to confront him but its not my business how someone acts or thinks but i dont like when they subject me to the negativety they carry around what would you do?

we need less of these posts.


In the next episode of ask Dr. Surly, Max confronts his transvestite ways and looks for support as he musters up the courage to tell his parents. But the question is, will they accept him as he is or throw him out on the streets to be the shemale he has become?

and more of these.

Harlequin
04-24-2007, 02:50 AM
I agree, Rkeh the TV Show Announcer totally needs to get his ass in gear and get workin on everyone's backstory.

stalwart
04-24-2007, 02:57 AM
I agree, Rkeh the TV Show Announcer totally needs to get his ass in gear and get workin on everyone's backstory.

i think we just found the title of our next section on the website.

Atnas
04-24-2007, 07:40 AM
thanks i think the thread is complete and im gonna bring it up but in a nice yet serious way if hes mean to me ill know hes not a good friend:thumb:

thats the coolest smily ever i can combo thumbs up now

Hahaha, "I can combo thumbs up now".

How can you be so pure and awesome?

Duervar
04-25-2007, 12:34 AM
Hahaha, "I can combo thumbs up now".

How can you be so pure and awesome?

Kharzim, don't flirt with the elves. You feed them once and they will be stuck to your leg for life.

Harmar
04-25-2007, 01:32 AM
At one point in my life I was confused and assumed I was the one you refer to as elf. Then I foind the light, now I am ashamed of my roots or something

Helgeran
04-25-2007, 03:06 PM
Kharzim, don't flirt with the elves. You feed them once and they will be stuck to your leg for life.
No, treefingers is special. I don't know if he's someone going through ALOT of trouble building up a fake persona or if there really is someone that awesome when filtered through the intertruck.

MaxTheDwarf
04-25-2007, 03:57 PM
No, treefingers is special. I don't know if he's someone going through ALOT of trouble building up a fake persona or if there really is someone that awesome when filtered through the intertruck.

Duervar's right, he could be like that damn loch ness monster.

Atnas
04-25-2007, 06:22 PM
Kharzim, don't flirt with the elves. You feed them once and they will be stuck to your leg for life.

That's a wet dream for me.

Killuminati
05-11-2007, 03:19 AM
this guy can't be human..

Fylraen
05-11-2007, 03:31 AM
goddamn loch ness monster, get your own goddamn money

Harmar
05-11-2007, 04:14 AM
did he ask you for about 3.50 too chicken fucker?

Fylraen
05-11-2007, 02:13 PM
the sig chicken is making that face because it is being fucked

Stark
05-11-2007, 03:36 PM
goddamn loch ness monster, get your own goddamn money

Hell no I ain't givin you no tree fitty.

Spikey
05-26-2007, 05:15 PM
Put his mum in a fast food frier. That'll shake him up a little.

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